Today we had our baby shower. We asked the guests to fill out cards detailing advice they have for you. We saved all the cards to give to you in a few years.
Your Papi and I didn't fill out cards of our own, but this is what I would have said:
Dear baby,
I hope you learn: to take chances and push yourself to the edge. There is no way to be successful in life by always playing it safe. Now, I don't want you to take this piece of advice and become a wreckless daredevil.
I hope you love: to try new things and meet new people. Speaking for your Papi and I, we're both outgoing at times, but also very shy. There are times when your dad can captivate a whole crowd of people and other times where he is very reserved. I feel the same way about myself. My dream for you is to be more outgoing and pleasant when meeting strangers. (Just don't jump into the car with them!)
I hope you never forget: your roots baby! Know who you are, where you came from, and how you got to where you wanted to be, along with the people who helped you get there. Your identity is something we will work strongly for you to be sure of.
I hope you respect: the rules. Understand that you can't always change every rule to suit your needs. Sometimes, you just need to learn to play the game. One day you'll be making the rules, and others will need to follow them. Be patient.
I hope you ignore: rude and stupid people (in all sense of the word). I know how hard it is, but you're coming from two hot headed parents. Your Papi may try to deny it, but sometimes people get under his skin too. For you, I hope that you are kind, and patient with everyone. This is a skill that I've had to learn over the years.
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